Back to School !

I am starting my final semester (I think so) in USC after serving a temporary working life in a company which is currently going through rough patch (Ref:Previous Blog). I have to say school life is far better. If someone funds and pays to attend school , I would do it forever. Reasons are quite obvious.

When you are working in corporate life , it tends to be monotonous. Get up every weekday at the same time , get ready , go to work , come back , work out and sleep.
Wait for weekend for enjoyment/relaxation and again curse Monday morning. Virtually its a cycle of predictable events. U feel life as if someone had programmed you.

In school life , every day is some what new. We don't have to wait for a weekend to sleep or relax. Except to attend class and submit an assignment it hardly matters which day of the week it is. You are the boss of your own life. Moments that you spend in school is the one which will remember for rest of your life.

Make best use of your education life rather that cribbing about it. Though u get paid when u work , money is not all it life. Funny thing is , sometime people get so much that they don't have time to spend with satisfaction. Thats the Irony life!
I am not denying the fact that one shouldn't require money at all. Most people are bound to work for living some day . Am only trying to say that you have to strike the right balance between your work and life. Work is not life!. I know this is hard to do , but once balance is found person will be content or happy in life.

Lay off , Live Show!

We all have heard about it , read about , experienced or witnessed. Well , I witnessed it . Live show , I would put it as. Reality in current corporate world , considering slow down of US economy. Well this post will describe one such lay off which happened dramatically.

I am currently doing an Internship in company called NextWave Wireless. It looked like a normal day , where I was just doing my low priority work. After all Intern does that, in most cases at least. Our team had a normal meeting at 2 , just briefing about status. Outside the room , through the window , I could see people with tense look , moving around here and there. I hardly gave it a thought , was kind of lost after heavy lunch. I returned to desk around 3pm to continue my routine work , and was chatting with a friend regarding full time opportunity here . Call it a coincidence , an High Importance mail popped up which described about need for force reduction (or lay off) of about 10% to protect companies financial security. Then I thought , well full time chances is almost ruled out , have to look for a new one. So , had not much worries. Yes , I was kind of disappointed. Well , the whole point of doing an internship is convert into full time job. So , I went to cafeteria to get a cup of coffee. On my way , I could see petty groups of people here and there with a concerned look. Well , I thought people are just thinking who might actually get fired. Sadly that wasn't !!!.


I returned to my desk , one of the manager came to cubicle of another manager near to my desk and said he will do some hand off , and said he will chill out for next 2 weeks and start all over looking for a job again!!. Then I realized , people actually are fired. Then I went to desk of another intern whom I know , he wasn't there at his desk . But he was in around group of 6-7 Desis who were just talking lightly. Then I came to know everything . In that Desi group , 4 of them actually got layed off.

It seems people who got fired , got a mail to attend all hands meet around 2:30 pm in the afternoon and they cant afford to miss. Believe it or not , at 2pm their systems where locked by IT department , to protect Company data. When they attended the meeting , they were told one of the groups (Network group) was not performing well , So they are forced to lay off. They took their systems away , badges everything. And they were handed over HR bundle for exit process. It seems there was even stack of cardboard boxes to help fired employees take their stuff. One positive thing though is that they were in payroll for next 2 months.


What a dramatic day it was , even though I was not involved , it was quite a shocker to witness such a thing. This episode clearly explained how unpredictable life could be. You came in the morning and without warning you are asked to leave. Even the most feared or pessimistic person wouldn't have thought about it.


I guess in life , you have to be prepared for the worst. If you are then it is easy to digest such shocks. If we are not ready to face the reality then its always difficult to get over such events in life. Having said that , one should not be to pessimistic as well, always hoping for the worst. One should be optimistic in life and think that what ever happens , happens for good. Even though it is hard to visualize the positive aspects of a bad event , who knows that could be blessing in disguise. After all every cloud has a silver lining. If this is difficult , at least we should never give up hope. Well I end this blog from my favorite movie Shawshank Redemption "Hope is a good thing , may be best of things , and no good thing ever dies".

OH ,U WANT THE SCISSORS TO BE USED???

One of the many things that I miss from India is a good hair Saloon. Nearly for 6-8 years my barber was same, I used to get cut by same person no matter how busy he was. Reason being, there was no need to explain how to trim my hair. I simply transferred control of my head to him, he used to crop the way I want it.

So, here I come to LA hoping for some what similar hair cut that I had missed. One quick information though, In Los Angeles you find mostly Mexican Hair Saloons for reasonable price. Being a Student, you have to go there with no option left. Also Mexican men (Most of them) will like to keep the hair as short as possible; virtually you can see the skin on the head. Women Barbers also like to trim the hair the same way no matter who is in the hot seat!

When I went First time around, it wasn't that bad. It was kind of short, but was manageable. But, at that time I thought it was worst. Worst was early due this year. It was almost like I just came from a Dharmastala or Thirupathi after donating hair to god. Only difference was it was Mexican goddess [:P].You have to be careful to choose words when you try to explain how to cut your hair. Mexicans know English which is enough to survive. I said, don't cut short or something, probably lady just heard short and was happy to cut it short as possible. Mistake could be on my part as well. You see, I have one weakness; I can’t make it how much hair has been cut unless I look closely. Having no options, have to stick with Mexican saloons


Now am in San Diego for an Internship. My roommate suggested that, there is Chinese hair saloon near by and it’s quite good. So, I went trusting his words. There was a big surprise. It had turned out to be an Afro-American hair saloon. Having no other choice, had to go for it. So, I waited. Then came the weirdest conversation. A barber came near to me (I think he was the owner) and asked me whether I was here for hair cut. I said yes. Then he asked how I would like to the hair to be. I explained my usual style. Then he asked a question, which I dint see coming at all. He asked, "OH, U WANT THE SCISSORS TO BE USED?” I said yes, but inside me I was shell shocked. After he went away, I realized why he asked such a question. Usually, Afro-Americans have shorter hair (or no hair) compared to Mexicans. Most Afro-Americans visit hair saloon to basically clean of little grown hair. I felt it will be kind of rude if I walk out after this conversation. So I stayed there and hoped for the best. Then came my turn. There were plenty of Afro-Americans around; being a Sunday I presumed it was Barber family sitting around watching Rocky Balboa movie. Barber looked kind of confused when I sat for hair cut, but eventually he asked, how to trim my hair. I explained.
Confused barber started using his SCISSORS to trim my hair. Funny part was; he asked how long the hair would be, I mean literal measurement. I had to think for a moment and had to answer using inches unit. While he was struggling to, there was Barber's grandfather who kept starring at me as if he was seeing a hair cut for the first time in his career. Soon after some time one more Afro-American came and started shaving using electric shaver. So simple!
He was trimming my hair in weird way, but at the end it was almost what I had asked for. Though he was not proficient in cutting my type of hair, he some how figured out a way and did a pretty good job. In fact I was happy when it was done. I tipped him a couple of dollars for the extra effort.

I guess life is all about adapting to new challenges. New challenges could be faced in an innovative way, even if you had no clue about how to go. There is no harm trying different, after all what’s the worst that could happen? In this case, he could have screwed my hair, but he would have learnt from that experience.

Wonder who will read??

I finally thought , I should blog something. My last post was posted on Aug 21st. It has been 10 months since I posted. So , what is the reason??

May be am very lazy to blog. Other reason could be , I get excited by new things and gradually loose interest. My mind is very wavering , my interest and moods keep swinging all the time.

One more reason , may be i felt not many people were reading my thoughts. So , I thought what is the point in blogging anyway?

So here I am again , writing some crap. I have no Idea till how long this interest will float in my pendulum brain. But one thing I realized , I should blog not for other people's sake , I should for myself. Write out what your mind really things rather than waiting for people's reaction. Once you start doing it for your sake , other people might appreciate it. Also , Some day when you read an old memory , you would exactly know what you are feeling , may be feel good or bad about it.

Well having given an explanation as to why one should blog , now I should decide how frequent I should blog. Well its a tricky decision to make . Right now I feel , should post once in a week at least. One week is a lot of time to to write something. It could be my personal life , others or current controversial topic and list goes on.

I have a new found purpose for blogging , at least that's what I feel now. Also , I should not just write and keep quiet , I have to start reading other people's blog.

Its a good time pass to get to know other people thoughts may be you will understand better.

So who ever you are , who was patient enough to come to this last line , I would suggest you to start (Or restart ) blogging.


That's it for now , will star blogging soon on some inter sting things happened(or happening) in my life.